CONSEQUENCES OF MASTURBATION

                      CONSEQUENCES OF MASTURBATION

 Because of religious, spiritual and cultural believes, most people feel somehow about masturbation.

However, masturbating at moderate can help you release sexual tension, gives you unusual confidence before ladies, causes you to sleep deep, relieves stress, and sometimes a better way of attending to sexual urge for pregnant women,

Sex and masturbation are not the same no matter how you compare them. Masturbation is an unnatural way of reaching orgasm. The feelings that comes with it arrives by artificial induction. Though all orgasms are the same, but they are not created equally. Quicker ejaculation associates with masturbation.

Consequences of masturbation, many are not aware of. A lot of questions on masturbation has been asked most especially from ladies, yes! Ladies masturbation a lot, especially virgins. Guys also masturbate. There is no debate on that. I’m not here to argue about who masturbate most, we are here to deal with a serious issue.

Sexual urge for virgins is strong as a result of the newness, the mystery and what they hear people say about sex.

Masturbation is fondling your genitals constantly to achieve orgasm. Ladies may stroke their clitoris while guys rub, massage or caress their penis. We decide to give explicit explanation because some ask what masturbation is.

Some ladies especially non-virgins use candles, banana, small bottles, stick, dildos or whatever represent a penis and do solo sex.

From teenage upward, you have a strong desire for sex. It’s a sure sign you are normal and capable of having and enjoying sex. In your 20s it’s strong and intense! You may wake up feeling horny for no single reason or get urge for spotting a curvy lady! You may start noticing shapes and curves and you have to shake your head several times to keep the image off. You may get worked up on watching a romantic movie and discharge something. You check up and discover you are wet. All these are normal, you have not committed any sin.

So what then do you do when you get hot and horny? Have sex? I guess you know the answer already and some single girls will never be caught sleeping around, so what then do they do? They masturbate! They gave themselves release and pleasure through solo time. Masturbation is completely wrong and not the way out.

Its unfortunate that many youths of today resort to masturbation either because of the pleasure they drive from it or fear of rejected by opposite sex. Which ever be the case, there are many negative consequences of masturbation, some of which we will talk about in a bit;

1. Masturbation is not done in isolation. It is done with the image of someone in mind. It can be a lover, an Ex, a celebrity, a married person , a crush, porn or some persons you have but incapable of having sex with them. That is MENTAL FORNICATION

2. During masturbation, the body produces neurons and hormones. Masturbation causes imbalance of these body intelligence as most masturbators are addicts, the urge increases day by day. It’s something one does without help and does anywhere so long as he/she is alone.

3. For ladies, while inserting all manner of objects, you may mistakenly deflower yourself and also introduce infection into your genitals and womb. It will be very difficult to convince your future partner that you never had sex with man except object during your solo sex.

4. You will kill your ability to enjoy sex in future. Millions of women do not enjoy sex `in marriage which leads to sexual frustration, adultery, lesbianism and feminism. If you are used to getting orgasm by yourself, you will not be able to get it from your husband. If you are used to object in your private part, there is a tendency that your husband’s penis might not stimulate your vagina again. You will always think of something harder, bigger, longer and completely unrealistic.

5. Masturbation can ruin a marital relationship because it is done alone. There is the likelihood of ignoring the physical and emotional needs of your spouse.

6. You will not have a good sex life like a man. You will experience premature ejaculation and your wife will not enjoy you leading to complete sexual frustration in marriage. You need self control to fully enjoy sex and give your wife maximum sexual pleasure. A woman enjoy sex when the man can go in for at least 7 minutes before ejaculating. Because you used to instant release from masturbation, you may not be able to go more than a minute before exploding leaving your wife completely unsatisfied and frustrated. She may close up, become frigid, and stop having sex altogether which may lead to having an affair. Self control before marriage helps you enjoy sex to the maximum. You are able to delay ejaculation, go on for long time and have an excellent orgasm while giving your wife pleasure too.

7. After masturbation, many people feel damn tired, empty and lost of confidence to face the day activities. It affects you psychologically and create depression after ejaculated. Some miss daily activities, cancel on friends and at times miss work.

8. You feel drained, dirty, empty, useless, detached from God and powerless after such act.

9. If you do not suffer premature ejaculation, you may have serious problem with delayed and retarded ejaculation. A situation you may have erection for several hours without ejaculation or orgasm. What is the benefit of sex without orgasm? Rough masturbation with your hands numbs your penis and reduce your ability to feel/enjoy sex with your wife. It is hell for a woman to be under man who thrusts in for hours unable to ejaculate.

It is the reason some women are seemingly embarrassed and cannot talk to anyone about their inability to conceive. Thrusting so hard injures the vagina and leaves the woman with no option than to hate sex altogether.

10. It leads to mental disorder.

11. You have so much to loose when you masturbate. Not only the lack of confidence it gives, but also you can never look healthy for men and in some cases lost respect for women. Abstaining from the act helps you feel relaxed, confident, have normal sexual intercourse and enjoy the pleasure that comes with sex.

12. Masturbation affects the brain by causing loss of memory.

13. It leads to medical state known as ATROHPY which originate to PROSTITIS. Enlargement of the prostrate gland which prevent urination and obligate to use a catheter ( a thin tube which is put into the body in order to remove liquid such as urine).

14. Masturbation brings about sexual impotency in many cases leads to soft erection for males.

15. You start getting unsatisfied even after ejaculating and your penis erects at the sight of any form of nudity, always fantasize about sex.

16. You get warped view of the opposite sex. You begin to see them as sex object. You became promiscuous and can have sex with anything of opposite sex no matter status.

17. As against public believe, one can get STI as a result of masturbation. Some infections of the penis like inflammation of the glans penis and bruising of it can result to one contacting herpes, staphylococcus which are sexual and skin diseases.

18. Females who masturbate infest themselves by inserting dirty and unsterilised objects into their private parts.

19. Males who masturbation excessively experience low sperm count.

20. Masturbation is a sin at which gradually you get damaged and broken.

Friends I believe that the consequences of masturbation by far outweighs the pleasure associated with it. Therefore, I encourage you to desist from the habit if you are addicted to it.

SOLUTION TO MASTURBATION

What then should you do to your already activated excessive sexual urge? How do you handle the constant hunger for sex?

1. Avoid all dirty pictures, pornographic videos or images, hot romantic movies. They are powerful sexual triggers.

2. Avoid friends who say dirty, lewd and obscene things. Stop all sexy banter with friends and only say things that are pure, holy, needful, and helpful.

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3. Get busy with your life, education and carrier, there is more to life than sex.

4. Study the word of God a lot and play more of Christian songs. It kills lust at the moment. When you are filled with the word, you have no space for the devil and his demons in your heart.

5. Pray to God always for help.

6. Make friends with Godly people.

7. Be an encouragement for others in duties such as evangelism where you can teach other to desist from the act thereby encouraging yourself too.

Masturbation is bad, wrong. Demonic, destructive and sinful. Avoid it and end it before you cross boundaries where it will disgrace you and leave you with a stigma.

May God help you!