IMPORTANT THINGS ABOUT SEX

                  IMPORTANT THINGS ABOUT SEX

Many career couples have abandoned sex in their relationship, sex has become a chronic source of tension in too many marriages. Most people went through so much tension and stress during the day that rest and a good night sleep is the next on their minds. Sometimes, one partner has a high drive, and the other a leave alone attitude.

There are situation when couples stay for two to three months without making love. They are probably too busy looking for money and do not have time to spend with each other. Whereas consistent mutual sex pressure increases bonding within your relationship. The most common frequency for having sex is once in a week. The next common frequency is once in two weeks and the third is once in a month.

Sex desires and feelings

Most of us typically think of sex desire as hunger for sex, often with sexual thoughts or fantasies, that prompt us to initiate sex.

Most women experience a receptive type of sexual desire. For many women, desire is triggered by thoughts and emotions arising during  sexual excitement, not before. So when a husband becomes frustrated because he wants his wife to pursue him sexually, and he believes that she has no interest in sex because he does not do that, he is actually not giving her enough credit.

Most women will respond to sexual advances, they just do not initiate them because that is not the way they were designed.

Many women enjoy love making once it is 10 to 15 minutes into foreplay. Most of us assume our partners should act as we do. By recognizing that most men are proactive with sex and most women are reactive with sex, and then by accepting and respecting those differences, we can allow a woman’s type of sexual desire to count.

Factors That Affect Sexual Intimacy

Another important thing about sex is that lowered sex drive is extremely common after child birth, and even throughout the first year. Particularly in breast feeding women. Many couples do not realize the impact child birth and breast feeding can bring on their sex life. Breast feeding women frequently feel tired, overwhelmed yet their husband’s drive has not lessened a bit.

She has a decrease desire to touch, cuddle, or have sex. Expecting a women should achieve orgasm through intercourse alone is like expecting a man to reach orgasm by only stroking his testicles. 

Do not ignore the fact of anatomy. Women come in different shapes and sizes physically, emotionally and particularly, sexually. So the only safe way to approach the clitoris is to find out what she wants and like. A rare woman might be okay by starting quickly for her clitoris; most will be offended or turned off.

Like the penis, the clitoris engorges with blood during arousal. Touching before she is aroused will be unpleasant and painful.

Women differ greatly in how they enjoy having their clitoris stimulated, and the type of stimulation can vary during the different stages of lovemaking. It can be fun for a white to tell her husband how she wants to be stroked by placing her hand over his and actually putting pressure on his fingers to demonstrate where she likes to be touched, how lightly or firmly, and how slowly or quickly she likes the movements to be.

Your sexuality is like driving a car, there are “ brakes and accelerators” which is also called turned ons and turned offs. Sexual brake are those things that hinder your arousal or enjoyment of sex. Some common examples are making love when you are exhausted, feeling criticize by your partner, or trying to be sexually intimate when you in-laws are staying in the bedroom next door.

All marriages will experience conflict. Since sexual intimacy is one of the arenas marital conflict harms, it is safe to say all couple will have the problem, solve their sex life. At some point the more important sex organ is the brain. It is possible for some people to experience orgasm just from an intense sexual fantasy. Many experts have said that for great sex, the orgasm between our ears is more importance than the orgasm between our legs. The meaning we give to sex, the attitude we have toward our spouse, the feelings we have about our marriages, all contribute or hinders good feelings or experience with sex.

Sex is comparative to a good health

* It wards off heart attack. Frequent sexual intercourse (once or twice per week) lowers your chances of a fatal heart attack.

* It lowers heart disease. DHEA, released with orgasm, can reduce the risk of heart disease, and testosterone reduce harm to the coronary muscles if a heart attack does occur.

* Helps husbands live longer. One or two orgasm a week help men live longer and healthier.

* Improves your sleep. Orgasm causes a surge in oxytocin and endorphin that help people sleep.

* It makes you look younger as a study reveals. It is one of the strongest correlate of youthful appearance, an active sex life is (two or three times a week)

* Increase fertility and regulate menstruation. Regular intimate sexual activity with a partner promote fertility by regulating menstrual pattern.

* Decrease pain from menstruation cramps, arthritis, and headaches. It increase level of endorphin and corticosteroid, raising pain threshold.